Dealing with the loss of a spouse is one of the most difficult situations a person can face. The grief alone can be crippling and adding to the stress is the need to deal with funeral arrangements and any other tasks that may have arisen during your spouse’s final illness. And if you’re like most married couples in the United States, you’ve probably also been named as the Executor of your spouse’s estate in their Last Will and Testament.

Most people make the decision to name their spouse as Executor without thinking about it, but there are several skills and qualifications that are required to perform the task. Your responsibility as Executor is to either fulfill the obligations expected of you as Executor or to pass on those responsibilities to a Successor Executor. That being said, not everyone is immediately ready to serve in this important role. That’s why we’ve put together this list to help you serve as Executor of your spouse’s estate.

Stay Organized

The single most important thing an Executor can do in this situation is to stay organized. You will be dealing with many complicated financial and probate forms, the latter of which requires an accurate accounting of all estate assets before and after they’ve been distributed to beneficiaries. Most probate attorneys will suggest tracking expenses and other matters relating to the estate in a Microsoft Excel spreadsheet since it’s designed to help you stay organized and easily understand the financial condition of the estate. However, if you’re not used to keeping track of finances or you’re unfamiliar with Excel, this may prove to be a difficult task. If this is the case, you may want to…

Speak with an Experienced Estate Attorney

Most estate attorneys have a great deal of experience administering estates and can assist you in keeping track of all the assets. They can also help you avoid the pitfalls that come along with being an Executor of an estate. The probate process is complicated and confusing, so it might benefit you to have an experienced professional available to assist you in these matters.

Consider Who Will Serve in Your Place

While your spouse named you as the Executor of his or her estate, there are some circumstances that can prevent you from serving in that capacity. Provisions are typically made in the Last Will and Testament that allow Executors to pass on their responsibilities to Successor Executors; however, you should consult with an estate attorney to discuss the best options for your situation.

If you’ve been named as the Executor of an estate and you need assistance with administration, or if you would like to review your current Last Will and Testament to make sure you are comfortable with your choice of Executor, please call us to set up an initial consultation with one of our probate attorneys.